Success Stories

The Journey Continues....

Her student Jay* started smoking weed for the first time when he was 12 years old. Jay* still remembers every little details. He grew up always having an interest in drugs and alcohol. He looked at it as a sign of maturity and a very accepting sub culture. Drugs were all over the township he stayed in, drugs were in the movies he watched, were sung in the music he listened to and were talked about a majority of the time with older friends. Soon he decided he was going to score some pot. Being the young age he was, he had no access to it, so he started drinking his friend’s father’s liquor. He was mostly in love with marijuana because it gave him a memorable feeling. When he got to a boarding school for his grade 8 studies, he eventually drugged himself into countless episodes of humiliation, despair and physical and emotional wreckage. He started partying in school which for him quickly changed from the usual weekend partying into a daily habit and eventually into the inability to function or interact with others without alcohol and marijuana in his system. Jay* always kept a stash of marijuana in his locker room and made sure that he was always high all the time. He started to abscond classes, he would sleep the whole day in the school grounds, his school performance dropped so dismally and also his behaviour changed drastically. But more than anything, he remembers falling completely in love with getting high. Week in week out he was constantly called up to the staff room by his teachers who were so worried about his behaviour. Teachers, friends, and family commented upon his unpredictable mood swings, bizarre behaviour and fits of anger. Even worse, Jay* was so annoying to everyone that the administration of the school decided to expel him because he posed a threat to the other students. His Career guidance teacher Miss Dlamini* who used to offer him counselling sessions then decided to refer him to NATICC to further get assistance. NATICC social workers attentively listened to the concerns. They understood the hardships he was enduring in his life. He started to attend counselling sessions at NATICC for two times a week, more follow ups were done including home and telephonic calls. Care plan goals were set with the social worker, which were monitored so closely, and he was also referred to National Psychiatric Referral Hospital for psychiatric evaluation where he got medication. The social worker made sure that Jay* adhered to his medication. The positive change in Jay’s* demeanour overwhelmed his loved ones rekindling a sense of hope. His teacher Miss Dlamini was astounded by the remarkable transformation and recovery his student experienced upon getting NATICC interventions. The dark cloud that had enveloped Jay’s* life dissipated and he began to reclaim his rightful place within himself. With the help of NATICC social workers and his teacher he was re enrolled back to school because there were positive changes from his life. His behaviour changed to that of a school demonstrated child, he was more focused to the point that his school performance improved. There was also that teacher student collaboration and eventually Jay* stopped smoking marijuana. He passed his matric and he got a scholarship to go and study in Cuba. Jay* not his real name.

The Healing Power of Forgiveness

Raised in her maternal home, Sebe* is a dynamic young woman. At an early age, she lost her mother and her father abandoned her. Subsequently, her grandmother nurtured her and told her that her biological father had a wife and kids thus denied her fatherhood, so she had to be raised by her maternal grandparents. Since her name and surname had no significance to her and who she was, she attributed significance to the name that her grandmother and uncles gave her. She felt disoriented, portraying wayward behavior for a young adult. As she got older and tried to discover who she is, she made an intermittent effort to connect with her father and develop a father-daughter relationship. She consequently lost her sense of identity. She felt that she was being treated like a replacement child after her father was let down by his other children, which is why she had fits of rage and resentment directed at him. She lost interest in socializing and retreated into her emotional shell when others attempted to get to know her, which had a serious negative effect on her career and interpersonal relationships. Because of her pessimistic outlook, she was experiencing symptoms of anxiety and depression, so a treatment plan was created. She learned the value of forgiveness through counselling, and she realized that her personal development would not have been hindered if she had forgiven sooner. She was able to move past her wounds, grow in empathy and compassion for other people, absorb lessons from her experiences, and become more selfaware. She stopped being recluse and began opening up to her colleagues. Since her mental health was at risk after experiencing upheaval for more than half of her life, NATICC provided psychosocial support. Since she was not ready to confide in her father, the social worker engaged her in play therapy—the “empty chair.” During several sessions with various exercises, she was able to release all of her thoughts and emotions and received assistance in processing them. The caseworker contacted the father and grandmother as per the care plan agreement as the intervention could not be one sided; she realized she needed their support. Her father’s outreach enabled her to divulge. After so many years, she visited her paternal home during the festive holidays where their bond grew stronger. Sebe * became more informed that while it’s vital for a girl child to have her father provide guidance and love, it’s equally important to put in effort and cultivate an attitude of acceptance in life. NATICC continues to offer comprehensive psychosocial support and empowerment to Sebe* in her journey. With her father’s help, she’s currently working and studying part time. Sebe* not her real name.

Client Overcome Persistent Trauma

Siphiwo* is a single mother of two who is parenting them all by herself. She is 42 years old. She is the type of mother who will battle tooth and nail for her kids and will stop at nothing to feed and clothe them, which forces her to work at a nearby restaurant. One day, as the client hustled for her children in that restaurant, there was a robbery that traumatized her because the criminals demanded money from her while she was working as a cashier that day. She was the only eyewitness.